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Tips for Catching Liars

dushdush..

kekawan sume..jum kite bace entry nih...amat besh n bermanfaat...act entry nih da lame nk update kt blog nih...tp asyik lope jer..uhuhuhu...so cam zaman skunk nih byk sgt penipuan berlaku tol x? keeping promise yg entah ade entah idak....so..meh kite sume tangkap sume penipu2 nih...kite bg die pengajaran dket..nk menipu kunun...tp kantoi....

to me tips nih amat berjaye jepp gnekn lam kehidupan harian...so dont get to easy on me okeh!

Parents often face the prospect of whether their child is lying to them. A husband or wife might believe their spouse is lying to them. But though you might suspect that a loved one is lying to you, it's often hard to know for sure.
Here are a few ways to tell if someone is lying to you. If someone displays any one of these traits, I wouldn't jump to conclusions and convince myself that person is lying. But if these warning signs begin to pile up, then you might be onto something.
Try to use logic to back up your impressions. If someone's story changes over time, then the person is more likely to be lying. It probably means that the person can't remember every detail of the lie.
Also, try to compare a suspected liar's behavior against that person's usual behavior. Deviations in behavior are often telling.




Body Language
1. Avoiding Eye Contact

2. Unnatural Hand Movement
Their hands touch their mouth, throat or other parts of the face. They scratch behind their ear, the top of their head of the end of their nose.

3. Personal Space Is Restricted
Hand and arms movements are towards their body in general. If the person is taking up less space, that is a sign they are being defensive and trying not to be noticed.

4. Stone Faced
Facial expressions can be described as stone-faced. This is the classic attempt to use a "poker face" to avoid being read.

5. Not Facing the Truth
The person turns away from you. If the person seems uncomfortable facing you while being questioned, by turning their face or their entire body away from you, then the person is probably hiding something.

6. Conflicting Body Language
If body language and expressions seem to contradict one another, this might mean that a person is lying. If a person expresses a positive emotion but has a negative look on their face, that person may not be telling the truth.

7. An Unnatural Smile
If a person smiles only with their mouth, this is a fake smile. When people smile a genuine smile, that person's eyes tend to squint, their cheeks raise and their forehead scrunches down.

8. Gestures Out of Sync
If a person's reaction time is delayed, this means they are thinking before they act. So if a person's smile or anger is delayed, this tends to be an unnatural reaction. The person is distracted at the very least, and possibly hiding something.

9. Builds a Wall Between You
If a person places objects between the two of you, this is a sign they are building a kind of barrier between an accuser and himself or herself. This barrier might be a cup, a tray of food, a laptop computers, a book or most any other object.


The Liar's Rhetoric

1. If a person mumbles when answering your questions, this means they are trying to muddle their way through the conversation and avoid speaking the truth.

2. If a person evades the question or doesn't give a direct answer, this might mean that person is trying to avoid a direct lie.

3. If a person answers your question by repeating your words, the person may be buying time to think of a lie or evasion.

4. A person who over enunciates their words is more likely to be lying. A person who uses contractions in their speech is more likely to be telling the truth. This is a more natural, relaxed way of speaking. The liar might be trying to overcompensate.

5. A person who uses sarcasm to avoid your questions, this is a defense mechanism. Humor is also a common way to avoid answering with the truth. Of course, humor and sarcasm have many uses besides hiding untruths.

6. If you change the subject, a liar is likely to be happy to change the subject with you and discuss anything but those situations involving their lies. A truthful person being accused of lying is much more likely to return to that subject, to defend their truthfulness.


No Hard and Fast Rules

These signs all point towards lying and deception. This does not mean people exhibiting these behaviors are not always lying. Every person is different. Some people are not comfortable in conversation at any time. Others might be avoiding certain subjects because they aren't in the mood to discuss it or because they are distracted by something else. Try to use these signs as a guide to follow up hunches or to support factual inaccuracies.

The Habitual Liar

These signs suppose a normally truthful person who is lying for specific reasons, such as a child wishing to avoid punishment for a "bad" behavior. In the case of the habitual liar, not all of these signs might work.
Unfortunately, some people become so comfortable with lying that lying becomes a natural act for them. They become practiced at it. Even then, a person is likely to betray some hint that they are lying. So I would suggest you rely more heavily on your logic and fact-finding skills when dealing with such a person, or simply avoid the person altogether.

so to all penipu kt luar sane...berhati2 la..coz my readers da taw care nk tangkap kowg menipu...tp mesti saket kn ble kte taw owg yg kite syg nih menipu kte...so handle with care larh eh...ala...kowunk pon paham kn?

Part 1 - Student UniKL Projek [Street Fasion]

dushdush...

huhuhu...ari ahad awituh jepp ade shootink ntok kekawan jepp la..die nih student unikl so die minta tulun jepp ar..pe g..ngan aty yg mulia jepp pun tulun ar ngan ikhlas.. shootink nih ntok apentah..tp yg jepp taw.."jepp ko reti makeup smokey eyes x?, nty tulun shah boley?" tu la antara dialogue yg telah jepp olah kn..

dowg lak nk shootink tempat yg ade graffiti...terus terpancul kt pale jepp..kt s.alm ade port yg ade graffiti tuh..pe g dowg pon on jer...

tgh makeup nih..

sowunk ag..

hok jantan pulok..


tibe ari ahad..afta jpe client jepp...jepp terus jpe dak2 nih kt giant s.alam..lunch dlu..pastu lepak umah jepp..bukan lepak kosong da..lepak ntok makeup2 model2 nih la.. kowg tgk ar sndiri hasil makeup jepp..

ok ke hah?

huhuhu..cam ruse dowh..

sorry la mane2 model jepp ta letak...nk upload pic lembab ar...size bsar sgt kowt..ok ok...so pas siap2 je makeup dowg...jepp pon touch up sket muke jepp..then of we go...g la kat port yg de graffiti tuh...uhuhu..agak semart ar..kowg saksikan la sendiri...

buhjet!

si gedik!

mintak lempang je.. huhuhu..

cun x?

jepp panggel die yitik..^^

yang pasti lam projek nih...jepp jd makeup artist,coordinator,imej consultant,location finder dan juge model...so byk keje tp ilek jer..no masalah pon..huhuhu.. tp as a pengalaman jer..da membermember tade la nk berkire sgt..hehehe..ekhlas jer...syah sok banje jepp KFC taw..uhuhuhu..

jepp nk masuk byk pic ag...tp image uploader lembab ar...tention jer...nih ade pic kami yang last tp jepp paling suke..chemart kowt..^^ kowunk nilaikn la sendiri..

kami

the mediaungu services

dushdush..

jepp ade interesting entry nih..ahaha..like now jepp salu ckp jepp bz en? so jepp nk share ngan kowg ar...act jepp keje ngan kawan jepp..die nih ade company sendiri..name company tuh mediaungu services...jgn pk service len plak..wahahaha..



ok ok..adam thephotographer merupakan peneraju utama mediaungu services ini...company ini disahkan berlesen pada awal tahun 2008 ini..so me as his partner merupakan seorg PA, member kamcheng, penasihat peribadi, coordinator, helper and macam2 ag da..



so ni merupakan busines kad mediaungu services...dam aku publish nih..pe ujung bulan gaji kasi up ar...ahahaa..joke jer..dalam kad tuh tertera no tipon si adam nih..so sesape yang memerlukan photographer boleh la berunding ngan jejepp atau pon berunding terus kepada si mangsa buli jejepp ini..ahahaha..sian ko dam...uhuhu..



company ini melakukan perkhidmatan jurugambar..ala photographer la..then antare service len yg ade...banyak gak la..
antaranye :
- photo printing
- designing
- colour printing
- business card
- wedding card
- banner & bunting
- photo retouching
- brochure & pamphlet
- portfolio

ni lah antara kerja2 yang jepp lakukn bersamesame ngan adam nih..so nampak cam sikit en..tp tak masuk ag g jpe client, discuss ngn owg2 atasan yang ade songeh tersendiri..hehe jgn terase da ar eh..mati aku kene rejam ngan adam pasnih..ahaha.. then yang beshnyer kt cni pengalaman and dapat kepuasan apabila client berpuas hati ngan penerangan jepp (even aku ni baru je jd partner adam ni)...so pepe pon jepp mesti ar berteimakasih kepada si adam nih(pe g blanje KFC ar pasnih dam)..

antara gambar hasil nukilan si photographer ni boleh anda lawati lawan web adam sendiri..ala..ade kt link jejepp tuh..kt adibadam.photopages.com..click jer...konpom ade la..so leyh tgk contoh ngan lebey jelas ok!

so sesaper nk amik photographer or memerlukan service yang disediakan oleh mediaungu service jgn lpe btaw jepp k...with my big hand jepp tadahkan..huhuhu..maju anak malaysia..yeah! ^^

thx 4 ur tyme k sume..